Not Waving But Drowning

If you peg someone wrong and you think that they will be thick-headed and a jerk, but they turn out to be really nice and kind and think highly of others it is kind of a good and bad situation. It is good because you don't have to put up with there ego and you met a nice friend. But it is also bad because you have wasted time that you could have been using to hang out with them or become better friends with them. But having a good intial opinion and have that changed is awful. I have had that happen many times. It is bad because you could have been spending time with a person that is nice and fun to be around. You also sometimes could get judged wrong because you hang out with this person. For example if this person turns up to be a drug seller or does drugs, people could think that you do drugs or could have that suspicion. Being wrongly judged is never fun. Even if they think you will be mean and find out you are nice because they could have told somebody intialy that you were not who you are and that person tells somebody and the chain goes on and on. Hopefully no one ever gets pegged as nice and kind when they are not. Either way I don't think people should judge others before meeting them and hanging out with them a couple of times. You can't judge a book by its cover.